Today, our Bishop came to talk to us during staff meeting. He came to listen and to give a few words of advice while we are in a time of transition with Pastor Joe resignation in the works. His last day is 5 weeks away. During the conversation, time management came up and he emphasized that during this time (especially) that we may (will) need to say NO.
By saying no, we will be able to protect ourselves and our spiritual and physical health is vital. It is great to hear that from leaders. Also, by saying NO, we are able to be more intentional with the “yes” that we give out and there are a few great yes’s that we need to do and commit to.
Then later today, I was flipping through pages on the internet and came across another “affirming” article that Andy Stanley had done on “the thin line”. The article was called THE TENSION OF NO. One of the great lines (highlighted) from the article is the following:
As you narrow your focus, you create more opportunity for other people.
I think this is golden and obviously is a great lead into “priesthood of all believers”. However, many in leadership are afraid to give ministry away. Many of us are terrible at saying NO, so we say YES to everything. When we say YES to everything, we are robbing individuals from doing ministry and serving out of their passion and that is a shame. But, at times, we go, it is so much easier if I did everything.
But, we can not do everything. We need to take a look at the bible and see that when the apostles/disciples could not do everything; they handed the ministry reigns over and devoted themselves to prayer and the ministry of the WORD.
Thoughts To Ponder
– what would happen if leaders were devote solely to prayer/word
– what is the toughest part of saying no
– are you willing to delegate the things that you should not be doing